Some are catching the light right now. Some are waiting their turn — and that isn't failure, that's life. I created this worksheet for both of us — an honest read across all areas of life, plus the two foundations that hold the rest of them up.
Read all twelve. Stack the two underneath. Find the corner that's ready for your light.
Step 01
Build your base
The basics I actually live by. Check off what's already yours — then add one.
Step 02
Score your life
Twelve corners, one to five. Tap the wheel, watch it catch the light.
Step 03
Pass it on
Found your gem? Send it to a woman who's ready for hers.
Foundation One
The Nutrition Stack
Ten non-negotiable building blocks. Not rules — a foundation. Start with one and build from there.
Every piece above, on one Amazon list. No upgrades you don’t need.
I don't do trendy. I read the science, I run the experiment on myself, and only what works stays. Everything on this page has earned its place.
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The Main Event
Twelve Facets, One You
Every part of your life is a little mirror. Some catch the light. Some are waiting to be polished. Score each one from one to five — tap a facet, or tap the list. The corners that stay dark aren't failures. They're your next move.
Score matches the list — either one moves the other
Area of lifeNeeds love → fully lit
your life is currently
0% lit
Your twelve numbers are counted anonymously, so I can see which facets go dark most often. No name, no email, never tied to you.
There's no failing here — only data with a beat. Your dimmest facets aren't flaws. They're where the next light is hiding.
The mirrors waiting for your light
Reply to any Lit Up email and name your dimmest facet. I'll send back what I'd actually do about it.
Already catching the light
Protect these fiercely. They're already doing the work.
Your facets are waiting to catch the light.
Score the twelve above and your results glow right here.
The rest is yours
Want to keep it?
Your share cards, your saved score so you can watch which corner moves, and the printable worksheet are all just past here. I'll send them your way — and one note a week after that.
A facet that's dark in January is often the brightest one by June — but only if you keep looking. Score yourself again every season, or any time life turns a corner. A new job, a hard month, a good one.
The point was never the number. It's watching which corner moves.
Pass It On
Send it to a woman who's ready
Pick a card. Send it straight to your share sheet, or save it. The caption comes with it.
Ready to go deeper?
Get on the list
One note a week — unlocking the joy, the power, the science, the next thing worth trying.
